She refuses to acknowledge you, even look at you for that matter.
You might even try walking up to her and awkwardly deliver a pickup line you read on the internet somewhere.
What happens then is you end up going home crying yourself to sleep wondering what you did wrong.
Raise your hand if you've ever been in a situation like this (I'm currently raising my hand).
Let's take a look at the above situation and figure out what went wrong.
Before you try to get the girl you need to remember a few facts that won't change no matter how many books you read on body language or pickup lines.
- You can't win them all.
- No girl is better than you, no person is better than you.
- Girls don't initially turn YOU down, they turn down your approach.
Stand at the bar, beer in one hand (at all times), preying the room like they're a jaguar hunting it's final deer for the month.
There are so many things wrong about this I don't even want to point them out.
If you truly are interested in getting the girl, I mean, getting her to like you, be interested in you and making her want to keep you around, you just need to be your best self.
I know what you're thinking "be yourself? that's horrible advice!" - which is true.
I'm saying be your best self.
Self-development is a never ending process and is something you should spend a lot of time doing.
Read books, develop interests, learn about other cultures, see movies, listen to music you don't normally listen to.
This builds your character and makes you an interesting person to have an actual conversation with.
Quality conversations are rare in today's nightlife and are highly valued, take my word for it.
Now I know you're all dying to hear about amazing secret underground opening lines that never fail on any girl, ever but I'm here to let you down because there are none.
A good opener is an illusion.
How many times have you heard a girl say something like "he's very funny/nice/other positive characteristics"? That's because a good and interesting character is what most girls are looking for, at least the girls you want to end up with.
To "break the ice" all you need to do is say Hi and introduce yourself.
Have a good talk, don't ask her if she's ever been here before.
The best way to put it is, think what all guys do to get the girl and do the opposite..
don't talk to her about her favorite color or pet - it's boring.
You should never, ever, put a person on a pedestal just because they look better than you.
Think about it, the person you are admiring for his/her looks might as well work for McDonald's making cheeseburgers.
How does she have more value than you do? She doesn't.
What has he/she ever achieved that makes her special? Probably nothing.
Treat her like you would treat your best friend, just relax! There are always people who are going to act indifferent and don't care about anything or anyone and they will turn you down, but that's most likely the person you wouldn't want to spend the rest of your life with anyway.
Develop your self as a person, mind and body, go out, relax and have fun.